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10 Signs You’re Addicted to Debt

Submitted by Kristy on December 26, 2008 – 6:35 am9 Comments

It’s pretty clear that America has a debt problem. Irrespective of the media’s recent recession coverage, Americans have been spiraling out of financial control for some time. Debt is increasing and savings numbers have been negative for the last decade. Now, if you display one or two of these warnings, that doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re addicted to debt; however, it could lead to addiction if left unchecked. But, if you, like many Americans, have all 10 tendencies, then I suggest you seek professional help because you’re probably in real financial trouble.

With that in mind, let’s look at 10 warning signs that could mean you’re addicted to debt, and make no mistake, there are those out there who are.

# 1 – Unsure of your financial state

If you have no idea what’s in your account, what your interest rates are, or where you stand with retirement income you definitely fall into this category. Not having a plan for your finances could mean that you’re in denial about your situation. And like most other addictions, admitting there’s a problem is the first step. Getting your finances in order would be the second.

# 2 – Terrible savings habits

If you don’t even have a savings account, I’m genuinely worried. But, if you do and you’re NOT saving, you should be. This includes planning for recurring expenses like taxes or daycare (if you have them). If you’re not planning for these things and then habitually act surprised when they come around, you have a problem. If this recession has taught people anything (besides that big banks are the spawn of all evil), hopefully it’s that we need to be saving for a rainy day.

# 3 – Shop-a-holic

Here’s another rehab and anonymous group we need. If you shop when your happy, bored, sad, depressed, or any other emotional state you can think of, then you have a problem. Habitual shopping for things you don’t even want, or need for that matter, just leads to a shortage of money and a pile of useless junk. I’m not talking about your needs-based shopping folks. I’m talking about those people who wander from store to store, picking up whatever strikes their fancy. Step away from the stores and give yourself a 24-hour cooling off period. You’ll be surprised how much less “stuff” you have.

# 4 – Always buying on credit

Ok, this one alone isn’t all negative. I use credit for everything just to get the points, but then I pay it off at the end of the month. If that’s your pattern, then fine. But what I’m talking about here are those who buy useless junk on their credit cards with no intention of paying it back at the end of the month. If you think nothing of whipping out a credit card to purchase what you want, right now, then you may have a debt addiction.

# 5 – Using credit to pay off credit

If you’re having to use one credit card to pay off the other every month, then you’ve got some financial troubles and need to reevaluate your situation. There are plenty of people who don’t pay off their balances every month but are working to that end. However, if you’ve got a nice game of ’round robin’ going on, your intention is to clear enough off of one card to allow you to spend on another. That’s an addiction, like a crack addict trying to figure out where their next fix is coming from.

# 6 – Living paycheck to paycheck

This is another that, by itself, isn’t completely telling. This could be due to a lack of financial education. Someone may not know how to budget, etc. But, for those where this is just one in a long line of warning signs, it’s a pretty good one to take into consideration. Living paycheck to paycheck usually means that you have no savings and no plans to establish one, and if we were to look into your finances, we’d find you probably don’t have a clue what’s going on. See the pattern? Most of these signs build on one another. So, if you don’t have a savings plan in place and you’re living paycheck to paycheck, start paying attention because you may have an addiction. And like any other addiction, getting rid of debt is tough.

# 7 – Spending just to spend

This is in line with number three, shop-a-holic, but goes beyond just emotional shopping. This is the junkie getting their fix. This is where people spend money because that’s what they’ve always done. It makes them nervous or anxious when they don’t spend. Extra money burns a whole in their pocket. If you get a Christmas bonus and instead of saving it, you blow it just because you feel like you should, then you’re spending just to spend. You’re getting your fix.

# 8 – Buying more house or car than you need

Both are fairly large debt payments and if you’ve got an addiction, you may not even think twice about it. Spending money comes naturally and since you live in the moment, you buy what you want now, not what’s economical for your situation. People are constantly doing this and it’s one of the reasons we’re in the mess we’re in – not that it’s all their fault, but there is a level of responsibility to our debt addicts as well. If you’re just starting out, a smaller house may be more practical. A hybrid may be a better option than a hummer. Living beyond your means will keep you in debt and your constant decisions to do so are a big red flag that you’re an addict.

# 9 – Borrowing more money to pay the money you already owe

This sign isn’t about those who consolidate their debt as part of a “debt reduction” plan. No, this refers to those who live in a continuous cycle of borrowing to cover their borrowing. Those who will borrow to pay down their credit cards, but then run them up again, and borrow more to pay them down yet again. This is a vicious cycle that is difficult to maintain, and definitely one that will catch up with you before long. If you’re doing this, STOP. I don’t know who you are, but I’d be willing to put money on the fact that it’s affecting your health, your relationships, and your job performance, none of which is going in a positive direction. Seek help and end the cycle.

# 10 – An uncontrollable urge to keep up with the Joneses

And last but not least, if you have the overwhelming feeling of materially one-upping your friends, family, coworkers, or neighbors then you’ve got a complex known as ‘keeping up with the Joneses.’ This condition is causing you serious financial distress and may be affecting your ability to be reasonable about your finances and your addiction to debt. If you feel yourself in this position, the best thing to do is take stock of what is important in your life and worry about that, not what trinket or gadget your neighbors just picked up. The reality is, the Joneses are probably in the same boat as you and may even think of you as the a Jones they‘re trying to keep up with. There’s some food for thought.

Ok, so this article is a little ‘tongue in cheek,’ but the signs are real enough. If you can relate to several on the list, you may have a problem with debt and it’s best to nip it in the bud before it gets out of hand. If you don’t exhibit any of these warning signs, then you’re well on your way to being financially secure.

What other warning signs do debt addicts display? How do you rate on a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being ‘not an addict at all’ and 10 being ‘a complete debt addict?’ You don’t have to answer that here, of course, but at least be honest with yourself.

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9 Comments »

  • I did every single thing on the list except for #8 (unless you count an overpriced rented apartment), and #9 because I never borrowed money from anyone except from student loans.

    But it’s possible to get out of it, even if you feel like it is hopeless. There is always hope and a way out of it.

    Just need to stop denying that there’s a problem, face the facts and work out a plan to start paying back the debt and budgeting.

    Fabulously Broke in the City
    Just a girl trying to find a balance between being a Shopaholic and a Saver…

  • P.S. Am linking to this.

    Fabulously Broke in the City
    Just a girl trying to find a balance between being a Shopaholic and a Saver…

  • Many of those who are addicted to debt are also obsessed with their credit scores. Their distorted attitude causes them to analyze financial decisions based on what it might do to their FICO score. If charging the new gadget won’t lower their score, they do it.

  • My mother was an unrestrainable shop-a-holic. I aim for some type of balance – I still buy myself things I want, but don’t waste on junk.

    I make sure I have enough for bills, and savings with extra left for me. I have high interest rates on my credit cards which rather annoys me, and I keep thinking about calling Chase and Capital One to complain, but I resist.

    It might be better for me to carry those high interest rates. Why? Because that’s a deterent for me to put money on them. I hate giving oodles of money to greedy creditors, and this will make sure I don’t put anything on there unless I really need to.

  • Rich says:

    I think I was guilty of every one of these at some point in time. I still think I do #7 every now and then, which makes it tough to reach bigger goals like buying a new laptop.

    Under #4, I’ve noticed that when I buy on credit I usually try to justify buying more than I need, since if I am going to make payments on it a few extra dollars a month or a few more months of payments is not a big deal.

  • Vik Dulat says:

    I think biggest thing is people get bored of their daily routine and decide to go to the mall for a change. They think they are going there just for fun but in reality, they end up spending money on items they do not need at all.

    This leads to clutter in the house and waste of money.

  • Kristy says:

    @ FB – well, if an overpriced apartment counts on this list then I’m there with you. But, apartment living will probably always be overpriced unless you live in the dumps. Thanks for the link, btw! You rock!

    @ Mr. ToughMoneyLove – You know, I’d never considered it that way, but you’re right. Debt addicts tend to be very obsessed with their financial picture on the surface, but don’t actually know anything about it beyond that.

    @ PennySeeds – While I understand that the high interest rates can be a deterrent, what happens if you need to use the card and carry a balance? I’d recommend calling at least a couple and see about lower rates. Your not wanting to fund the greedy banks could inadvertently do just that in an emergency situation. On the other hand, I applaud you finding a balance. I went from one extreme to the other. I went from shop-a-holic to cheapskate, which isn’t always good either. But, I don’t waste money very often which is a good thing – although I still buy my DVDs, so I guess I splurge a bit. Fortunately I’m not in a position where I feel the need to buy Blu-ray, they’re WAAAY to expensive for my cheapskate self!

    @ Rich – You’re in the same boat as a lot of people. I myself spent a lot of time with 3 and 7. It took time to learn that three digit numbers in the savings was a good thing. Then, when it hit four digits, the learning began again because I was fiending to spend some of it. Five digits about gave me a heart attack. I started “hiding” money from myself. Not really hiding it, but I set up an online savings account and didn’t get a card to access it. I would simply “spend” money to this account and leave it there. Because I couldn’t really access it without going online to transfer, it made me really think about whether I needed to be using that money or not. Might be worthwhile to consider for your laptop goal.

    As with buying on credit, I must admit that I will occasionally do this as well. Christmas time is the worst for me when it comes to justifying the bigger expenses. I really do like to give gifts to people, so I tend to spend some money come Christmas…in fact, my sister has forbid me from being my nephew anymore toys for the next two years. Apparently, I bought the entire toy store and dropped it into my sister’s house. She wasn’t pleased. Anyway, so justifying expenses is a bad habit I’m still working on.

    @ Vik – I’m not sure I agree. I mean, emotional shopping does have a little bit to do with boredom and breaking up the monotony, but honestly, I think these habits are learned and it’s just the way we’ve always done things. I also think stress is another big motivator. Like the stress eater, there are stress shoppers. Those who live in a constant state of stress and tend to be stress shoppers have some of the most prolific junk you will ever see. But, debt addiction goes beyond just boredom.

  • OneAdvice says:

    I guess this is an American article, but the same is true across the pond in the UK as well. As shadow chancellor George Osborne said: “We’ve got a big problem in Britain, we’re addicted to debt.”

    This is so true, and the sooner we can understand what being in debt means then better.

  • Kristy says:

    @ OneAdvice – Yes, this is an American article. :) But you’re absolutely right. America isn’t the only place currently struggling with these problems, it’s a world-wide issue at the moment. Unfortunately, I think people have figured out what this means, but they’re just late. We’ll always have the irresponsible ones who make no effort to improve their situation; however (at least here) our savings rate has improved since this whole recession debacle started. The only trouble is, too little too late. The recession is here and people are going to struggle. The only thing we can do at this point is get through it and learn from our mistakes.

    Thanks for reading!

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