Life or Debt Part II: A Reason to Fight
Just as the presence of debt places psychological burdens upon one’s mind, the vanquishing of debt is arguably one of the most liberating events that can occur in an individual’s life. Is it easy to reach this point in our lives? Rarely. This is what makes the victory all the sweeter. Don’t believe me? Let’s take a look at freedom from debt, and what makes it a goal worth fighting for:
Better Relationships: Debt is, generally speaking, a personal problem. Consequently it is only natural that a portion of one’s thoughts will be attending those problems at various times. When debt is gone, those thoughts can instead be turned to those around you, resulting in greater empathy and trust between you and those you care about, be they friends, family, or colleagues. Want healthier and more meaningful relationships with those around you? Pay off your debts.
Stronger Emotional Health: Surveys have shown that debt often leads to depression; given the fact that debt breeds fear, anxiety, and despondency, this really shouldn’t come as a surprise. Want a happier attitude and a more cheerful outlook? Pay off your debts.
Simplicity: If there’s one thing that I’ve learned from being a loan officer, it’s that debts can become unbelievably complicated. In this day and age, life is already crazy enough and, quite frankly, we could all do without the legal and mathematic complexity introduced by unnecessary debt. Want to simplify your life? Pay off your debts.
Discipline: A focused, planned debt repayment strategy, when adhered to, will teach you financial discipline that will serve you well throughout the remainder of your life. Additionally, as you accomplish the lofty goal of being debt free, you develop the kind of character that enables you to tackle even bigger challenges in the future. Do you want the personal power needed to overcome challenges that would make others whimper? Pay off your debts.
Integrity: A man who is honest with paying off his obligations will find it easier to be honest with his loved ones, his friends, and himself. By paying your debts you prove through your actions that you are a man or woman of your word, that you will honor your end of any deal, no matter the cost. Want to be a more honest person? Pay off your debts.
You see, there is a deeper reason to pay off your debts than simply to save money in the long run. By paying down these obligations, you build self-respect, confidence, and faith in yourself. I firmly believe that when approached with the right attitude, the long, hard fight to pay off one’s debts can be a growing experience. It can actually empower an individual and, over time, make them a better person.
So take heart, buckle down, and do not give up. Keep your eye on the light at the end of the tunnel and remember: That which does not kill you will only make you stronger.
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- Life or Debt: The Psychology of Consumer Debt
- Does Debt Control Your Life?
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- 6 Lessons Learned From Being In Debt
- The psychological implications of debt



I can’t believe how much being debt free (or in my case, close to it – just 2 months away!) reduces stress. When I was saddled with debt I never thought about the financial future – saving, investing, etc. All I thought about was “how did I get myself in so much debt”.
Now I can think about how I will invest the money that would go to credit cards. I can think about saving up and taking my wife away for the weekend.
Simply put, I am no longer depressed or anxious about my debt and that has made my life so much more enjoyable.
p.s. not only will getting rid of debt help out with depression, you might actually feel proud of yourself for doing the right thing!
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